FRIENDSHP
When we were small-
We were asked by all-
“Do you have friends?”
We said “we have many”.
But then none of us knew that-
Friends are actually very special an few.
So how do we define it?
What actually is friendship?
For many a friend is someone-
Whom you can always trust.
For some it is just another person-
You come across everyday.
For some it is a give and take policy-
Where both stand to gain.
And for the hypocrites-
It is a mere obligation.
In friendship you should give everything-
But must expect nothing.
What you do for your friend is your duty,
And if you get something in return, it is bonus.
We were asked by all-
“Do you have friends?”
We said “we have many”.
But then none of us knew that-
Friends are actually very special an few.
So how do we define it?
What actually is friendship?
For many a friend is someone-
Whom you can always trust.
For some it is just another person-
You come across everyday.
For some it is a give and take policy-
Where both stand to gain.
And for the hypocrites-
It is a mere obligation.
In friendship you should give everything-
But must expect nothing.
What you do for your friend is your duty,
And if you get something in return, it is bonus.
Always listen to your friends’ problems,
But never come out with your own in front of them.
Help them whenever they need it,
But never ask for any help.
You remain a friend of all,
Till you are there for them.
The day you need any help,
You become a burden for them.
You only live up to your friends’ expectations,
But you should have no expectations.
Because it is your responsibility ,
To sincerely fulfill your duty.
Today I may boast of many friends-
But are we really friends ?
Is it just an obligation for them-
To respond to my friendship
You remain a friend of all,
Till you are there for them.
The day you need any help,
You become a burden for them.
You only live up to your friends’ expectations,
But you should have no expectations.
Because it is your responsibility ,
To sincerely fulfill your duty.
Today I may boast of many friends-
But are we really friends ?
Is it just an obligation for them-
To respond to my friendship
I want them as my friends-
But do they want me as their friend?
I can’t force anyone to be my friend-
May be I donot deserve to have friends.
But do they want me as their friend?
I can’t force anyone to be my friend-
May be I donot deserve to have friends.
3 comments:
amar eta abosutely true bole mone hoyeche...
You are rite about the fact that nowadays most friendships are just mere obligations, deals people make just so that they can reap in the benefits.....
But again true friendship also xsists and there is disagree
""What you do for your friend is your duty""
Maybe its a duty but in Frienship u should do not Because u have to do it.....itz becoz u feel lyk doing it....It makes one hell of a lot of difference.....There should b a sesne of belonging which wud draw u 2 them.......
But nowadays Everything seems to obligatory.....u r rite....
contradicted this totally and a couple of weeks later was proved wrong ! let he/she whoever dares take my path be warned ... this guy speaks the truth .. believe me i speak from experience !! carry on wid ur writings man ... tc !!
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